we can be both

i am moving blogs that has a little different purpose then just me babbling on.
for some of you this new blog will be the end of you reading because the topic may be a tough one to take when involving me but i hope you give it a chance and maybe, it will help you understand a little bit better.

http://wecanbeboth.wordpress.com/

it has been a long time since i have blogged. but, i have been asked where i have been, and have more readers...so, what do i talk about?