you're just another guy. okay you're kinda sexy. but you're really nothing special

if you supposedly love someone knowing they love you back why wouldn't you be with them?
it doesn't make sense.
and another thing, if someone has waited three years and still hasn't chosen whether or not they want to be with you, come decision time do you think they are really going to choose you?
i mean really?
they want to experience specific things unattached, which is fine and totally legit, but if that means pulling you along and only wanting to keep you for two reasons;
1) wanting to have sex with you.
2) doesn't want anyone else to have you.
then the whole situation is complete crap.
patience is good, i understand that, but...
oh! here's another thing...
if you are so in love with this person why would you want to have sex with other people?
because they are having sex with other people too?
are you trying to even the score?
again, do i need to repeat myself? that is complete crap.

this isn't patience, that is just an excuse, this is false hope in thinking you two are actually going to end up together.
sorry to be the bearer of bad news here, but extremely doubtful.

stop being second to their single hood.